Book Review: Days Like These by Kristian & Rachel Anderson

This is a chronological walk through Kristian’s cancer, in his own words. Blog posts he wrote during his struggle with cancer have been compiled into chapters with a summary section at the end of each written by his wife Rachel. It’s incredibly personal, very personal, and of course very emotional throughout.

I don’t think I’ve ever seen a book like this before – written in the middle of the struggle, describing every up and down, no hiding behind cliches or spiritual catchphrases – and it’s pretty powerful. Simply by reading this informal journal we’re taken on a detailed and highly personal journey through cancer – it isn’t pretty, but it’s enlightening. I’ll definitely look at cancer differently having read this.

To be honest, I found the book quite difficult to read; firstly, the obvious subject matter, but also because it’s written as most blogs are, simply a collection of thoughts he’s having on that particular day with very little thought-through holistic storyline. That’s part of the beauty of it but I’m not entirely convinced it lends itself well to book format – it took me a long time to read it, and I read a lot. That said, the personal nature of it did genuinely draw me in to the point that I really felt like I had built a relationship with Kristian – it moved me to tears more than once.

An issue some might have with it is that he uses language every so often that some would consider offensive. I’m not sure whether this is because Australians (like Kristian) approach language differently to Brits (like me), or whether it’s simply a genuine expression of his frustration at that moment, but if that’s the sort of thing that would lose you, you’re probably not going to enjoy it.

Overall I’d certainly recommend this to anyone who is struggling with cancer, knows someone who is, or doesn’t know anything about it. Kristian’s focus invariably returned to Jesus in spite of the bad news that kept coming his way, and that attitude is something pretty much everyone could learn a lesson from.

I got this ebook for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Book review: Altar Ego by Craig Groeschel

Yes, it’s another book about becoming who God says you are in Christ. This one’s split into three parts, basically covering who we are in Christ, what characteristics that means we should have, and how to be bold in obeying God.

Craig Groeschel is biblical, challenging, humble and absolutely hilarious. Each chapter is well-structured, based on clear Bible passages and ideas, and well-communicated through Groeschel’s own experience and powerful challenges throughout. I’d challenge any Christian to read this book and come out the other side thinking they can continue living as they have before. The best thing about this book is Groeschel’s trademark all-or-nothing approach; God demands our all, so give him your all!

I normally try to come up with one or two things I didn’t like about a book but I simply can’t with this; at times it made me laugh out loud at his stories while at others it was as if my heart had been ripped out of my chest. I haven’t read a book as good as this in a long time, and am looking forward to Groeschel’s next creation.

If you’re a Christian, read this book. And if you’re not, become a Christian, then read this book.

I got this book for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Book review: Gods at War by Kyle Idleman

This book is based around the simple concept that people are created to worship, and that the question is therefore not, ‘Do we worship?’ but ‘Who/what do we worship?’ All of us are guilty of idol worship, and Kyle Idleman deals with one idol per chapter, looking at things like money, family, job and self to ask whether they are idols in our lives, and how we ought to replace them with Jesus.

I think this book is absolutely outstanding. Kyle Idleman is encouraging, funny, challenging, biblical, Jesus-focused, and a good story teller. Reading each chapter is like savouring a richly-flavoured meal, but instead of tastebuds being hit it’s your soul being exposed for the idol worshipper you are. Each chapter is challenging and intensely practical, asking probing questions which make it easy to apply them.

It’s filled with good stories and links to more detail about them, as well as being packed with references to high quality books so reading this ought to be the start of an adventure rather than a goal in itself. There are also plenty of cheeky footnotes which made me laugh a lot; this is not some academic study in idol worship but a radically challenging and instantly applicable handbook.

If you think you need to read this book, you definitely do; it’s probably the best I’ve seen on replacing our idols with Jesus. And if you think you don’t need to the chances are that you’re in even more need of it because you’re unaware of your own idols!

I got this ebook for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Book review: Draw the Circle by Mark Batterson

Leading on from Mark Batterson’s book The Circle Maker, this is a 40-day devotional-style book. In each of the 40 chapters there’s a Bible verse or passage, a true inspiring story of someone who prayed, and an application point for the day. The chapters are short and readable, and are well-suited to the design of the book.

There were things that I liked about this book – its incredibly well-written, and each chapter is clearly thought through. The application points from each chapter are challenging and Bible-based.

But, unfortunately, I wanted to love this book a bit more than I did. I haven’t read The Circle Maker so don’t know if it’s explained in there, but even after having read this I still have no idea what Batterson means by ‘circling’. In the book it seems like at times it means taking a pen and drawing a ring around a particular Bible verse (e.g. ‘circling 2 Corinthians 7:14′), at others it means praying over a particular location while walking around it (e.g. ‘circling the living room’), and at others just praying about something (e.g. ‘circling a job interview’). Apart from being confusing this means that it lost its meaning, like when the author took Jesus’ command to ‘keep asking, keep seeking, keep knocking,’ and added ‘keep circling’ – what does that even mean?!

Something else that frustrated me was that the overall tone of the book made it seem like this guy just had everything in his life sorted now that he’d got ‘circling’ sorted out. There was quite a lot of things like ‘when I hit trouble I just circle it in prayer, trust in God, and continue in life with a smile on my face’ – not something I find useful.

The referencing also got on my nerves – some stories weren’t referenced at all (I’d never heard of Honi until this book talked about him in passing and I had to research him to understand it!), and the others had footnotes in really odd places, which for me broke up some excellent quotes unnecessarily.

Finally, although the book starts by saying that the purpose of circling stuff in prayer is more to learn God’s will rather than to get what we want, there was a bit too much talk about ‘you can get your dream through prayer’ which, again, I didn’t find useful.

Now, although this book did end up annoying me I still want to recommend it – the action points for each day are genuinely good, and if reading it is going to increase the amount of regular prayer (I can’t see why it wouldn’t), that can’t be a bad thing.

I got this book for free from booksneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Book review: Afraid to Believe in Free Will by Carl E. Begley

This book is a bit of an odd one, because I can’t quite nail it down. I suppose I was expecting a comparison between Calvinism and Arminianism, and this is definitely not that. It’s quite academic in flavour, looking at the philosophical and psychological history of belief in free will along with an analysis of societal contexts within which a stronger belief in free will would help.

First things first: I found this pretty interesting. I’m sure I’ll bring up stuff I’ve read here in conversations, and it definitely got me thinking. I’ve never put any time or effort into thinking through the ideas of whether or not we have free will, or whether or not belief in free will makes any difference, and this book has kick-started that thought process for me.

However, it’s fair to say that I don’t really get this book. It’s very academic in everything except the overall structure, which is frustrating – it took a while for me to understand where the author was going with this, and after having read it I’m not sure I get it even now, other than him saying that we ought to believe in free will. To say it’s branded as a Christian book that Christian input is fairly quiet throughout, and even when it comes in it’s analysed in the same way as any other philosophical source. The Bible’s quoted to back up Begley’s arguments and not to initiate thought, so I certainly didn’t feel like I’d learnt ‘the Christian view’ of free will here.

What particularly frustrated me was the way that the book looked at a couple of examples to demonstrate how belief in free will affects society, but the focus then shifted too far (in my eyes) onto the author’s own view of those particular situations; apparently offering financial support to the unemployed makes them lazy and reliant on good, hard-working citizens; of course communism is an idea from the devil himself; and scientific evidence shows that child abuse isn’t as harmful as society tells us it is. Yes, that last one is perhaps slightly skewing what the author says, but the particular chapter it’s in is long story about the American Psychological Association and the American Psychiatric Association and the confusion between the two – I still have no idea what the difference is, and I still have no idea how that relates to a belief in free will.

So in conclusion this has started some good thought processes, but I don’t think it’s done the best job at it – it’s got an academic tone without an academic objective, it gets too bogged down with the examples without explaining fully what we should conclude, and it doesn’t reinforce a Christian focus enough.

I got this ebook for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Book review: 20,000 Days and Counting by Robert Smith

The Bible tells us to ‘number our days’. Robert Smith took that literally, and when he realised that he had been alive for 20,000 of them he decided to take 48 hours out to make sure that every day he’d do everything in his power to make it count. This short book is basically him communicating the lessons he learnt during that time, encouraging the reader to make each day count and ‘echo in eternity’.

Most of my opinions about this book stem from the fact that it’s so short – some chapters are only two pages long. On one level this makes it very approachable and not at all scary to read, but on another it means that some ideas are not communicated as clearly as I’d  have liked. Because of the nature of the book being something requiring such personal application, I think the book could perhaps have done with some questions for application at the end of each chapter, particularly as it was so short.

On the whole I found the content to be inspiring, challenging and exciting, but at times hard to apply to my own life; Smith tells about how it worked for him (e.g. calling 30 people per day to sell something led to several ‘no’s but the all-important ‘yes’ as well), but it wasn’t immediately apparent how I might be able to put that into practice myself. This led to the book feeling like [a] it was Robert Smith telling me how great his life is (not that useful), and [b] it could have done with being a bit longer.

So if you’re looking for something quick that will give you food for thought, you could certainly do a lot worse than this. But if you feel like you perhaps need a bit more hand-holding through it, I’d probably push you more in the direction of Craig Groeschel’s Chazown, or John Piper’s Don’t Waste Your Life.

I got this ebook for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Book review: The 5 Money Personalities by Scott and Bethany Palmer

This is a book for married couples who encounter conflict around money (i.e. every married couple). It suggests that there are 5 Money Personalities (Saver, Spender, Risk Taker, Security Seeker and Flyer), that we all relate to two of them, and that it’s our differences in Money Personality that cause conflict in marriage. It’s not a how-to guide on budgeting or getting out of debt, but it’s not intended to be.

It’s healthy for every married couple to honestly discuss money, and this book gives one good structure for this, with lots of capitalised activities (you have a Money Personality, a Money Relationship, you have Money Huddles…). By working through it as a couple it will unlock doors to understand where conflict is coming from, and to improve the quality of a marriage. Good news.

The book is definitely quick and easy to read and the chapters are short, so it’s reasonable to expect even a book hater to be able to read a chapter and discuss it. There’s a website connected to the book, themoneycouple.com, which has a bunch of extra resources on it, but I couldn’t get that to work.

The style is straightforward, related to real life, and funny, but at times got repetitive; why use ten words when a hundred will do? There’s also a really good appendix (which I think would have fitted perfectly well within the book) giving practical advice on how to cope with your spouse’s Money Personality, although the conclusion seemed to be ‘agree on a budget’ (key word being ‘agree’), which does seem to be the only answer.

Overall I did find the book interesting and it sparked thoughts and conversations in my marriage, but I’m not sure how strongly I’d recommend it if I’m honest. If you’re experiencing conflict in your marriage, definitely buy this book. If you’re not, I think you’ll find the majority of it a bit irrelevant.

I got this book for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Book review: Dirty God by Johnnie Moore

The title of this book makes it sound like this is going to be some controversial ‘the secret hidden message of Jesus that makes all of historic Christianity a joke’ books, but thankfully it’s not. It certainly is controversial, but for all the right reasons; it’s controversial because Christianity is controversial. From beginning to end this book’s about grace. It’s split into two parts, the first a detailed breakdown of grace shown in the life of Jesus, and the second a challenging encouragement for Christians to also live lives of grace.

To be honest, I found some things a bit annoying about this book at first. I’m not sure if it was just my copy or what, but there were some really weird text errors (like, half a paragraph appearing a page early) – there were too many for it to have just been a typo and they stopped halfway through, but that was pretty annoying. Also, the writer’s style is to make us realise that Jesus was a real person (something I appreciate), but at times it felt to me like he was trying a bit too hard for my liking.

That out of the way, I genuinely got a lot out of the book. At the most basic level it is ‘just another book about grace’, but the fact that Jesus is presented as a real person rather than some holy character really brings it to life, and to my mind the book got stronger and stronger the further I read. The book finishes with the author giving a vision for the global church which is absolutely massive, and that’s wonderful. What a joy to be called to be part of it!

I’d recommend this for anyone, Christian or not. It’s easy to read, fast-paced, and deeply challenging. Read and apply liberally.

I got this ebook for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Book review: Who Do You Think You Are? by Mark Driscoll

This book is essentially a sermon series in book form, walking through the book of Ephesians from start to finish. The subtitle is ‘Finding Your True Identity in Christ,’ which captures the theme that runs through the book, but there’s a lot more in it than simply a redefinition of identity.

I’ve read most of Mark Driscoll’s stuff, and my thoughts in the past have always been that his writing style seems so close to his preaching style that it doesn’t really lend itself to doctrine-focussed books (which is what most of his previous ones have been) – I read this expecting to like the content, but not be too enamored by the presentation. It turns out he’s struck a winning formula in this one.

Although perhaps not as funny as some of his other books, this is a solid, Driscoll-style presentation of Ephesians, taking a few verses and breaking them down in each chapter into a number of easy-to-digest points, with challenging and practical ways to apply the lessons learnt throughout. He’s a massive fan of footnotes and endnotes, which means that it’s easy to find out what Bible passage to look up to follow an idea through, or which book to buy next if you want to explore an idea.

In short, I don’t think I’m going too far to say this is Driscoll’s best book out there. It’s easy to read, thoroughly biblical, and contains an important message that people need to hear. With some insignificant reservations I’d recommend it to anyone, but particularly new Christians, and Christians who don’t think they need to read it. That might be you!

I got this book for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

 

Book review: The 360 Degree Leader by John Maxwell

The 360 Degree Leader is a book about leadership for people who are firmly in the middle of their organisation chart – supervisors, assistant managers, managers and so on. Looking at the challenges of leadership and management, the lies people believe, and a whole lot of strategies for growth, it’s John Maxwell at his best.

I’ve read quite a bit of Maxwell, and this is typical of him: tonnes of clever acronyms and catchy phrases coupled with a lot of personal illustrations and a heavy dose of empathy (and cheese), but essentially the same message as all his other books: leadership is nothing more or less than influence, so if you’re nice to people, particularly those who already have influence, your leadership skills and opportunities will grow.

It’s not quite a career planning handbook, it’s more about developing the skill of leadership wherever your career has found you, but if you’re looking for something about career planning this is a pretty good start.

If you’ve read Maxwell and you didn’t like the experience, this book definitely isn’t for you. But if you’ve never read any of his stuff, this is a really good one to start with – it sums up a lot of his other books well so you may as well get this one. That said, the content is very much suited to those ‘in the middle’, so if you’re a CEO or a trainee it won’t be as helpful for you as it would be for an assistant manager.

I got this book for free from BookSneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.